The two most important things to keep in mind when experiencing your first time as advised by Jesse Lasser
1. USE PROTECTION.
It doesn’t matter if it’s a mood killer, or anything, just do it, always.
2. Make sure your with someone who you can laugh with, you won’t know everything the first time, the mechanics, how it works, you will laugh, therefore you should be with someone you can laugh with.
That’s right, my former teacher, actually still somewhat of a teacher, but also now a peer and a friend, advised us on our first time.
It was not awkward, it was comfortable, he wasn’t telling us not to have sex, he was advising us, this actually came from his view on the importance and interestingness of sexuality, how it should be included in an education system and how being physical with someone does not at all have to be seen as something bad or sinful but something much different.
I completely agreed with this and loved this conversation and advice.
I need some lunch
I really want a good salad
Spending my early afternoon reading the Tao of Pooh
“But the basic Taoism that we are concerned with here is simply a particular way of appreciating, learning from, and working with whatever happens in everyday life”
